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Willie D
Oh the two faced friend. I have only had one (that I know of) in my life. She was really good at it too. We will call her Meredith, because that was her name. Aren't we exposing them in this entry? Ok, so I met Meredith at on of my husband's a company functions. She was the significant other of a colleague of my husband's. I liked her witty way and her "straight-forward" attitude. They say we like people who are like us, right? Well I introduced her to my circle of friends and for a while things were great. We would go out, shop, and do all of the things that gal pals do. Well at the time I started having trouble with the man choice of one of my closer friends. We will call her friend X. So I asked the advice of my other girls. Should I say something about what a rat friend X has chosen? Well Meredith took it upon herself to tell friend X everything I had said including some embellishments of own. This turncoat then proceeded to come back to me to tell me she heard that friend X knew I didn't like her man and added even more embellishments. Well needless to say all of the back and forth, she said and she said, led to the ending of a 10 year friendship with X. Although, that lying backstabber, Meredith, continued to be friends with X. And although they live in different cities, they are even friends 5 years later. Well the funny part is that Meredith asked friend X to be in her wedding. She placed tall gorgeous friend X in a frumpy ill-fitting bridesmaid's dress. She then told friend X, "I can't have you looking tall and gorgeous next to me on my day, so deal with it." Well all is well that ends well. I made up with friend X. She married the rat, by the way. And to her credit, he is the best thing that ever happened to her. Meredith and I live in the same city and our husbands work at the same company but we dont speak or even acknowledge each other. I am sure it's because she knows I see her for the devil she is.
ReplyDeleteWow...my two faced ex friend...
ReplyDeleteShe was a friend from graduate school. I eneded up moving into her building and so we started communting to school together and I started going to her church. We shared an office at school and I started going to her church as well. So, we were around eachother a whole lot! A new clothing store was opening up down the street from our aprtment building so I wanted to get a job. She got one too. We met a lot of new people, but one in particular I connected with. She was pregnant and had 2 other kids...right around my age...and her man was beating her. Yes...while she was pregnant. So I felt the need to talk to her and get to know her so that I could be a positive influence on her and get her out of the abusive relationship. Now, the 2faced friend couldn't stand all the time I was spending with my new friend. So she would make smart comment behind my back at school and work. She tried to get me fired one day by telling my boss I was home asleep when I had told them I was at school finishing a project...I really was at school. The last straw for me and this 2faced firend was when I went home for a holiday break. She went to church and told the congregation that her "close friend" was having a problem with drugs. She went up for prayer asking for the church to pray for me. So...everyone in the church assumed I was a drug addict. They took me out of teaching Sunday school, the girl scout troop, and eventually the church...they would not believe nothing was wrong with me. I never talked to 2faced after that. We were still at the same school and in the same office and she tried to spread the drug addict story at school too...lukily the people at school knew me too well to believe her. MAN...too much drama all from a jealous 2faced friend.
I had a friend tell me that my boyfreind was cheating on me and that i should break up with him. after i did she started to date him n i found out she was talking about me to him trying to get him to break up with me.
ReplyDeleteWell..I have a friend who is just negative about everything.We have been cool 4 sum time now..like over 10 yrs..A while ago, I was interested in this job position, so I had to have sum references..like any job requires. So I put her down as a reference thinkin that she will give me a good report..NOT..lol So I called the job after I having not hearing from them and they said that one of my references came back negative and they couldnt hire me! I was so crushed and just p'd off. So I told her about it and she was "oh..thats too bad..blah blah blah" Im thinkin in my head like..ur so fake and just so wrong for that. I knew deep down in side it was her from previous experiences..but I still end up gettin the job after I explained to them what happened and gave them another reference! But deep down I still dont want to believe it was her..
ReplyDeleteMy experience was with a ex-manager, who told me that she was hiring me for a particular shift in her department. Well, one of her best friends wanted to work in her department as well and the only shift that was open at the time was given to me. So, I was moved to another department and had to work a later shift. Of course I went to human resources to correct the problem and now all is well!! LOL :)
ReplyDeleteI have experienced quite a few two faced people in my life and I would say nothing is worse! I had a friend who would only come to me when she needed something and wanted my help or advice but then would not talk to me afterwards or would turn around and tell people that i was butting into her business and not a true friend when they came to me and I went out of my way to help them. SO frusterating. I hate dealing with two faced people and think it is a waste of time.. kinda like using eye shadow without TwoFaced Shadow Insurance ;) haha
ReplyDeletehollywork@gatech.edu- I am subscribed to this website!
this girl that is on my choir has always been jealous of the relationship that i have with her God mother, so she started a rumor saying that me and my husband was posting things about our church members on facebook and using their names to talk "junk." she also told my cousin that we were saying nasty things about her and her children.everything she said was a lie and when i asked her in a nice way, about what was going on she cursed me out. the same day she shouted at church she cursed me out. she was my friend and then all out of the blue she turned and finally told everyone that she was afraid that i was going to take her place and this chick is 27 years old talking crazy. i just prayed for her and hope God delivers her!!!
ReplyDeleteMy cousin and I were always really close. Well one time we were talking about this guy that I liked and she was talking so bad about him. He aint all that, etc. Well after awhile my crush faded and she ended up with him. Now they have a baby and everything...Aint that some mess.
ReplyDeleteTwo faced people...Can't live with them, most definitely CAN live without them!!! Well my story involves this girl I thought was my friend. I would have done anything for this girl. When I got my first car, I started giving this girl a ride to school every single day (for free). She was one of those people who try to be "Holier than thou", but being that she was my friend, I never thought she would turn her back on me like that. She knew all of my business and one day we had a falling out. Another one of my acquaintainces brought it to my attention that there were rumors about me going around school. Some of what I heard reigned some truth and I knew they only source of this information was that two-faced heffa (excuse my french). To make a long story short, she lied about exposing my personal business which was otherwise confirmed by some other friends. We exchanged many nasty words, I stopped communicating with her, and she started back riding the bus!!! LOL!
ReplyDeleteI then came across some information about this same girl losing her virginity at prom by some dude who she barely knew. He ended up dumping her a week after!!! LOL :) Thats karma for you!!!
My two faced person turned out to be my "best friend". I was having problems with my boyfriend at the time, and after confiding in her, and listening to her advice about not worrying about the situation, because things would fail into place---she starts dating my boyfriend after me and him "went on break".
ReplyDeleteHow two faced!
A former friend of mine ended our year and half friendship all because she assumed that I was avoiding her when she was the one that asked for space. She was going thru some personal issues so I did what she asked so how am I wrong for that? She had the nerve to say I should've called and checked on her. I've been nothing but a good friend to her thru thick and thin and you end our friendship over this? If that's not two faced then I don't know what is. I guess people show their true colors. Oh well her loss.
ReplyDeleteIwas friends with this girl and she would always talk about me behind my back. Too make a long story short she was friend with this guy i knew so he got her on thre way and of course she ran her mouth about me.I just stop talking to her.
ReplyDeleteThe two faced person in my life use to be my best friends....seems to be a pattern after reading the above posts...BFF's are the devil in disguise. Well I should probably start out by letting you know that I am bi-sexual. Anyway, the ex-best friend and I had been friends for something like 8 yrs. During that time maybe half way through she came out and expressed that she was BI also. So I guess you’re getting where this was going. Eventually me and the BFF became intimate. We both agreed to keep the relationship just sexual because we were both were not into being totally with girls or settling down. Don’t get me wrong we were not our here whillin...it’s not what u think.. We just were not into being openly gay. So we agree to keep the relationship on the hush. As a side note we also had a small business together. So eventually the BFF got a man and we pretty much stopped messing around but she started acting very weird and her man was acting even stranger when I went over to their crib for meetings pertaining to the small business we had together. I noticed the change but I took it as nothing and finished up whatever business we had to deal with. A few months later I met a new guy and randomly he tells me about his player/pimp homeboy. So after he elaborates on just how much of a bum this dude is he proceeds to tell me about the current girl he is messing with. He goes on and describes her in great detail. Where she lives ..ETC. This begins to sound all too familiar to be but I just allow him to go on and I keep listening. Eventually he tells me that the girl his is dating is Bi and that his boy told him that her BFF is very jealous. The new guy in my life goes on to tell me every intimate detail as told to him about this mystery bff (ME) and his playa pimp homeboy girlfriend ( MY BFF). I mean everything from what went down to what was said. Needless to say I told her what went down and I have never spoken to her since. We closed the business which was a profitable one and lost 8 years of friendship because of this. Boy oh boy did I learn many lessons.
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Aniyah1981
I've been friends with this grl since we were in middle school.Back then she was over weight and had low self esteem but i loved her anyway. When we got to highschool , she lost weight and boosted up her confidence. When we got 18 and started going out, she ALWAYS needed someone to tell her how pretty she was and she felt better when she put someone down. I didn't think too much of it back then and just let it go. So when we got to college, she really got outta hand. she drank waaaay too much and she started to get vain. I had to move in w/her and our other highschool friend, our sophmore year bcuz of a personal situation and once i did that, i really got to know who she was. She called herself having a house meeting and they kinda just jumped on me. So she had her birthday weekend and she got really outta hand. Telling us what to do, who we can talk to, being ungrateful and just being bratty. so the next few days it really bothered us, so we sat her down and talked about it. And boy she went off on us! we didnt cuss her out or say anything rude but she did to us. Since we started college, she had slowly been ticking off all our friends from back homen bcuz she had been talking behind their backs for the longest and it caught up with her and we were the last 2 to be friends with. so after our talk, she went outside but she didnt know she left the windows open in the house and we heard her bad talking us and calling us B****es on the phone to her mom and really dogging us out. after that day i moved put and ALL OF US stopped being friens with her. to tel you the truth it hurt after being friensd for so long and watching someone change before your eyes, is heart breaking. It makes me think how long has she really been my friend or just playing the role
ReplyDeletei invited my friend to go to a club with us on Saturday night, but she said "oh i cant, i need to study for midterms that night." when saturday night rolled around, i saw her at the bar we went to after the club, she was drunk and all over the men.
ReplyDeleteMy run-in with a two faced ho happens as such. We had become friends in cosmetology school and remained friends for 5-6 yrs after. I thought she was a good friend to me and invited her into my life, into my family's lives, and all the while her motives were to take what I had. Now she had a man of her own, and a family of her own, but he wasn't treating her right and I guess she thought I had the "good life" and decided to pounce on it if ever the opportunity presented itself. Because I loved this girl like a sister, I never would've imagine in a million years she would've done this to me. I was so blinded and she preyed on that fact. We don't speak anymore and I'm fine with it. I have forgiven her but I choose to remain friendless than to be a pawn in anyone's chess match ever again.
ReplyDeleteMy "so-called" friend went behind my back and hooked up w/ my boyfriend at the time... that is the biggest too-faced person I have ever met in my hole life...
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